Friday, February 8, 2019

How to Make Valentine’s Day Memorable


What makes Valentine’s Day special? There’s a simple answer: personal relationships and connections with others.

Valentine’s Day is a favorite holiday for me. In fact, the entire month of February makes me smile. One reason is because it’s the shortest winter month; another reason is because we are getting more daylight again. A third reason is that my older son Andrew was born in February and also married in February.

Point of fact, Andrew and his wife Anna were married on Valentine’s Day. It was a joyful wedding, loving and romantic. No big fancy affair, just the bride and groom, my husband and myself, the bride’s best friend, and a judge happy to officiate, followed by a wedding breakfast at a local hotel. Afterwards the bride and groom had to take a long drive so that my son could represent in court a couple accused of white collar crime.

Andy and Anna are still happily married and have a wonderful daughter to help them celebrate their anniversary. This love story is one of many worldwide celebrated on the most romantic day of the year.

Love stories have always been an important part of history and literature. Cleopatra and Mark Anthony. Cleopatra and Julius Caesar (Cleopatra did get around). As Shakespeare said, “she was a woman of infinite variety.” Then there is the story of Napoleon and Josephine, another passionate love affair. In the Bible, we also find some of the world’s greatest and unforgettable love stories. What can be more romantic than the story of Ruth or Solomon and the Queen of Sheba? And there is the story of Esther which is celebrated on Purim.

A lot of the world’s most famous, classical love stories, of course, did not end happily: Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, Helen of Troy and Paris, Lancelot, Arthur and Guinevere (a legendary triangle). These are tragedies.

Some of the literary characters I consider unforgettable are those of the Bronte sisters: Heathcliff and Catherine, the tormented lovers in Emily’s Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre and Mr. Rochester of Charlotte’s famous novel. Both romances are in the Gothic tradition. My tribute to that tradition, although one with a happier end is my novel
DARK MOON RISING.

Thomas Hardy wrote a number of tragic love stories. For something lighter, I prefer Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. Elizabeth and Darcy are memorable. I’ve read and reread that novel numerous times.

Love quite literally makes the world go round. My favorite Valentine’s Day gift to myself is purchasing a new romance novel. Candy makes me fat. Flowers wilt and die too soon. But a great romance can be read and reread and enjoyed.

 If you’re of a mind to read some romance to celebrate Valentine’s Day and enjoy short stories, consider my collection BEYOND THE BO TREE, a book that combines romance, mystery, fantasy and the paranormal. The first story in the collection is a free read:

For another free short story perfect for Valentine’s Day, check out “A St. Valentine’s Day Massacre” originally published in GUMSHOE REVIEW:

Here’s another free read suited to Valentine’s Day:

FYI: My blog for Valentine’s Day is a special one. The editors of HEART’S KISS MAGAZINE will be interviewed. (I have a short story in the current February issue.) I’m certain both readers and writers will find the interview of interest. So don’t forget to visit.





10 comments:

  1. Great post! My hubby proposed on Valentine’s Day with all 5 dogs at our feet. We went to the opera right after and it was a beautiful night to remember.

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  2. Hi Zari,

    What a beautiful romantic Valentine's Day! Thanks for sharing.

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  3. You definitely have LOTS of reasons to love Feb. Some I can identify with are the longer days and shortest month and (hopefully) cold weather nearing an end.
    Great stories too!
    THANKS for sharing
    Good luck and God's blessings
    PamT

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    1. Thanks for commenting, Pam. I love spring best, but February is special for me.

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  4. Valentine's Day makes February tolerable. Fun post.

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  5. Hi Susan,

    I agree about Valentine's Day, and I always associate it with flowers and chocolate.

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  6. I like Valentine's Day because it's one of the few holidays that See's Candy makes marshmallow covered chocolate :-) . Out here in the West, we don't have much winter so that doesn't matter. But it is a nice day to spend with my wife, Amy.

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  7. Paul,

    Lovely sentiments. I'm certain your wife appreciates them--and the candy.

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  8. I enjoyed your post, especially the tribute to famous lovers throughout history and literature. Wishing you a happy valetine's day!

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    1. Thank you, Saralyn. It's always nice when blogs are appreciated by readers and writers like yourself!

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